Apparently saying you’re open to casual sex means you’re automatically an escort that he doesnt have to pay for

Apparently saying you’re open to casual sex means you’re automatically an escort that he doesnt have to pay for


okcupidmoderator:

shitokcupidmemberssend:

At least he was upfront with his request. The link in my response leads here

I don’t like this message at all, that being upfront is okay, but I really hate that he tries to pass it off as a compliment. Straight guys generally want to see women naked. Women know this. Telling them is not a compliment.



I should clarify. I didn’t mean to insinuate that he was in the right at all. Looking back I should have worded it better. What I meant by that was instead of actually starting a conversation with me in the guise of getting to know me when all he really wanted was nudes at least he made it easy for me to see his intentions so I could block him quickly rather than going through an actual discussion and being disappointed when all he really wants is to see my naked body.

okcupidmoderator:

shitokcupidmemberssend:

At least he was upfront with his request. The link in my response leads here

I don’t like this message at all, that being upfront is okay, but I really hate that he tries to pass it off as a compliment. Straight guys generally want to see women naked. Women know this. Telling them is not a compliment.

I should clarify. I didn’t mean to insinuate that he was in the right at all. Looking back I should have worded it better. What I meant by that was instead of actually starting a conversation with me in the guise of getting to know me when all he really wanted was nudes at least he made it easy for me to see his intentions so I could block him quickly rather than going through an actual discussion and being disappointed when all he really wants is to see my naked body.

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So this just happened last night. Its starburst guy again with the exact same message as last time. Honestly Im not even going to snark. This shit just pisses me the fuck off. It’s not okay to be creepy and message someone like that. I ignored it the first time but clearly that was the wrong move as he seems fucking relentless in his efforts to inform me of his sexual fantasies of me. On top of that its not okay to ever give one of those “I’m sorry you got offended” non-apologies. No asshole, you fucked up either admit it or show your true colors and refuse to apologize. Don’t try and hide behind that fucking wall and try to imply Im beng over sensitive. This shit pisses me off

So this just happened last night. Its starburst guy again with the exact same message as last time. Honestly Im not even going to snark. This shit just pisses me the fuck off. It’s not okay to be creepy and message someone like that. I ignored it the first time but clearly that was the wrong move as he seems fucking relentless in his efforts to inform me of his sexual fantasies of me. On top of that its not okay to ever give one of those “I’m sorry you got offended” non-apologies. No asshole, you fucked up either admit it or show your true colors and refuse to apologize. Don’t try and hide behind that fucking wall and try to imply Im beng over sensitive. This shit pisses me off


At least he was upfront with his request. The link in my response leads here

At least he was upfront with his request. The link in my response leads here


I wonder what flavor of starburst he thinks I taste most like. But in all seriousness don’t message me about sex or anything sexually related before I’ve had a chance to ask how you’re doing and what your interests are

I wonder what flavor of starburst he thinks I taste most like. But in all seriousness don’t message me about sex or anything sexually related before I’ve had a chance to ask how you’re doing and what your interests are


Also to my friend. Hey girl hey

Also to my friend. Hey girl hey


I have no words. My friend received this the other day and its the funniest thing on the blog yet. Reminds me of this

I have no words. My friend received this the other day and its the funniest thing on the blog yet. Reminds me of this


I’m still trying to imagine how the sex and the long distance part would work. 

I’m still trying to imagine how the sex and the long distance part would work. 


So this is a message one fo my friends got. Clearly this trekkie is an expert when it comes to contraception methods

So this is a message one fo my friends got. Clearly this trekkie is an expert when it comes to contraception methods


Remember this guy? Well he tried to start a conversation again with more ridiculous results. Not wanting to wrestle anther atheist apparently makes me a prude.

Remember this guy? Well he tried to start a conversation again with more ridiculous results. Not wanting to wrestle anther atheist apparently makes me a prude.